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— I'm an adult— Might selectively follow back at first, but if you interact I'll most likely follow back. I'm less likely to fb if you don't have your age and pronouns visible anywhere on your acc or carrd— This is my space, I post whatever I want to— Sometimes I talk about my personal life, type in all caps, use emojis ironically, and cuss on tl for emphasis or if I'm mad. And only occasionally, I may post in Spanish– Multi-stan (90% boygroups, though I do stan a few girl groups too and I want to stan more). I try to prioritize the lesser known underrated groups I stan !! I can go from posting about one group to another– Timeline = dms, I don't mind if you message me randomly to have a chat!– Interactive! I try my best to interact with y'all so please interact with me too! I tend to call people "my friend"– Any cute friendly pet names are okay for me! Except "baby/babe"— Please don't call me "bitch" or such other offensive words in a joking manner, not even if we become friends— Don't gatekeep my biases from me... unless it's jokingly. I can jokingly bicker about an idol but in the end it IS just jokes, an idol is not mine or yours or anybody's; they're loved by many but they're nobody's property :) Seriously gatekeeping is weird behaviour– I follow groups with younger members and I bias some of them like with p1harmony or others. I will probably continue to stan groups with minor members, because I'm here for the music and the talent. BUT please know that I love them in a protective kind of way so if anybody harms my children I will come for you!!— I believe adults do belong on stan twt too if they wish to be. I don't mind if you're 29+ yo as long as you're a decent person– Do know I'm a casual fan of Sunoo, Ningning, Haechan and Ten, and Hyeongjun and Woobin, and am a casual listener for Enha, Aespa, NCT and Cravity (I simply don't follow their overall groups)– Correct me if I misgender you, educate me, and pls dm me before confronting me in public– Don't do to others what you would not tolerate to be done to yourself! No matter who your words, your actions are directed to, famous or not. You never know what the other person might be going through. Key word is RESPECT!– I don't like negativity, I avoid it as best I can and I try to make my account as much of a safe place as possible. Let's please support who we love in a positive manner!– If we're mutuals and you're not comfortable with my account anymore, please soft block to unfollow. If we're close moots though, I'd appreciate a dm to explain why it was, so I can understand and apologize if I did something wrong.I will always hold my faves accountable no matter what and I don't approve of any of their problematic actions.

DON'T FOLLOW IF

– army, engene or stay only stans. OR if you mainly tweet about those groups! I might not follow back if I decide you put too much bts, enha or skz on my timeline.
In particular, I don't mind if you're a multi and stray kids are part of your regular/stan list, but I probably won't follow back if you ult them!– Swifties, fans of Harry Styles or Troye Sivan dni (current moots okay)— You're under 17(↑ if I follow first ignore these points!)— If you're sexist, racist, fatphobic, ageist, zionist, ableist, insensitive, disrespectful, closed-minded. If you're homophobic, transphobic, generally anti LGBTQIA+ community, or spread any kind of discrimination— If you support Lucas, Ravn, Suju, Gfriend/Viviz, Oh My Girl, Jay Chang, Wondae, Kim Woojin, Nam Yun Sung, Jay Park, Kris Wu, Ksoul, Teo, Chaeyoung– Annoying only stan of any group, in a way that puts other groups down– You don't like multi fans/you're not okay with me posting multi content. You think multis are lesser fans !!? I'm not gonna be talking about the same group all the time because I like many.– Generally hateful, spread negativity, start fanwars or engage in them a lot, constantly goes too hard (ok if engage reasonably)– You will tweet gore with no TW !! I heavily dislike gore, even fake or animated. If other than kpop you will also share, rt, or bring any kind of possible gore to my timeline (metal bands, bloody anime, any other sort of interest that may be gory)... PLEASE dni and soft block me if I followed you without realising. I do NOT want to see gore!– We don't have a fandom in common– Bring other groups down to bring your faves up– Overuse fancy fonts– Can't disagree without arguing– You're uncomfy with my age or you think adults shouldn't be on stan twt– Won't stop talking about who you dislike. Actively hate on any group– If you sexualise real people (especially minors), or seriously ship them without their consent (only ok if they're a confirmed couple)– Hate on lesser known groups for no reason !!?– Discredit groups because you don't like them. Girlgroup stan who discredits boygroups, or boygroup stan who discredits girl groups– You blindly support your idols and won't hold them accountable for problematic things they've done– Put kpop over moralsBasically be a nice human being pls, the world is harsh enough already and we're all trying our best

note: please feel free to dm me if I ever happen to do or say anything ignorant or problematic or something that made you uncomfy, I am willing to educate myself💌 like my pinned tweet or comment the fandoms we have in common, if you've you read this! 🥰☀️ stan list

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“What if the times when we feel love and act brave and tell the truth are all the times we're four-dimensional, the times we're as big and everywhere as the cosmos, the times when we remember, like, REALLY remember, really KNOW, that we're made of starstuff?”
– See You In The Cosmos by Jack Cheng

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Thanks for dropping by and reading my carrd, I hope we can be friends!I wish to remind you that you are loved and valid, my account is a safe place <3 My dms are always open if you ever need comfort, someone to scream with or simply just someone to talk to!Please don't forget to drink water and take care of yourself, have a wonderful day!💌 like my pinned tweet or comment the fandoms we have in common, if you've read my carrd! 🥰click for a surprise_________________________________________

“You write because everything dies, to save what dies. You write because the world is an inarticulate mess, which you can’t see until you map it in words. Your eyes are dim and you write to put your glasses on. No, you write because you read, to remake for your own use the stories in your life. You write because your mind is a babble, you dig a track in the babble to find your way around it. No, you write because you are shelled up inside your skull. You send out probes to other people in their skulls and you wait for a reply.”
– Tony & Susan by Austin Wright.

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